My favorite scene in a movie is the last bit of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. The characters, Joel and Clementine, are listening to all of the horrible things that they think of each other and trying to figure out the point of staying together. The first time I saw it, I cried helplessly with Matt. The scene is naked and real. It's like someone took our arguments and feelings and threw them on a screen for everyone to witness. But, here's the scene. Click on http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKtMZ0lMfFk and watch.
P.S. It really is "okay." More than okay, actually.